“It would be silly to think that casual sex has no repercussions because this is going to impact you somehow,” says Lou Paget, certified sex educator and author of .Luckily, though, there are things you can do to help keep that impact well within your comfort zone if you do decide to forge ahead.“A good partner,” says Deanne, “is someone who is excited to see you but then is just as happy to leave in the morning and you’re OK if this person doesn’t call again for a week or a month.” It’s absolutely of paramount importance to keep a fling safe.
o many daters, “casual sex” may seem like a contradiction in terms: How can anyone stay laid-back about such an intimate act?
Even so, a no-strings-attached fling (or “booty call” as some call it) is exactly the situation some people find themselves in at certain points in their life.
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If you want to date this person, then do that—and if he or she isn't into dating , settling for no-strings-attached sex is dangerous territory.
On the other hand, complete strangers aren’t ideal since they can be hard to trust.
“I would find casual sex with a total stranger practically impossible,” says Steve.
“Although the idea is exciting, the reality is that the very best sparks can only occur when both parties feel safe and cared for.” If you are going to have a casual encounter, most people we spoke to say that the best candidates are people you know and are attracted to but can’t see leading to anything long-term, whether that’s due to different personalities or life goals.
“I see a tremendous amount of hooking up between friends or just people who like each other and got horny or drunk at a party together,” says Joann Magdoff, a clinical psychologist in private practice in New York City.
“The thing to keep in mind is that whatever the relationship looks like when you say ‘Hello,’ it’s not going to look like that in twelve hours or even in two weeks if you sleep together, so you have to be prepared for it to change.” One rule many experts and daters agree on is that you should steer clear of people you actually pine for.
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