We want it to work because love is the one thing we all desire.It’s a constant in our dreams of a happy and fulfilling life. They take their time falling in love, they’re much more fickle and they wait a lot longer to reveal what they feel to us.
No one can change your current romantic situation but you.
If you love a man and want to make him your own – you need to understand . Here’s a list of things you shouldn’t be doing in an effort to make a man fall in love with you: Cater to his every need. Don’t ask him where he’s been if you haven’t heard from him in a while and never tell him to button up his coat if it’s cold outside. Their minds also don’t operate the same way yours does.
An in-the-moment man will usually call and ask if you’re busy.
The reason being he’s got a few minutes to fit you into his schedule and he’s in a frisky mood. If the man you are involved with is often asking you to buy him dinner, or he makes excuses about not having enough money to buy you a holiday, Valentine’s or birthday gift, he’s not thinking long term.
Once you understand this, you’ll be able to draw him in – hook, line and sinker. There’s a great chance that if you do this – cater to every whim of a man, he’s going to stick around. NEVER clean his apartment for him and NEVER run over to his place simply because he’s feeling frisky. If you wear pink lipstick and the man you are dating says he prefers red, don’t convert. He already has a mother, he doesn’t want you to be one too. If you expect a man to know what you want from him, you’ll always be disappointed.
As women we’re often brought up to believe we have to be perfect to find the man of our dreams. I know because I was one of the women who would strive for perfection for years. But it’s not because you are the woman for him, it’s because you’ll do anything he wants. If you do you are showing him that you are easily manipulated. Don’t change who you are just because there’s something about you he doesn’t automatically like. If you want to get a man to sit up and take notice of only you, you need to understand .I’ve also made the crucial mistake of asking, or rather pleading, with my man to share what he feels. ” is one of those questions most women ask far too often.Men want to share what they feel, but on their own schedule, at their own pace and in their own way.Your other single friends all probably have their own jewels of advice that range from dating another man to make him jealous to giving him an ultimatum.Since most of them are also struggling in their own relationships, listening to their suggestions may not get you the results you want.When marriage is on a man’s mind he is saving for the future. Men hold onto their hearts longer, at the beginning of a relationship, than women do.